I have been listening to people that it is better to be silent when the other person is really angry. Yes, I guess it is right to end the… — I have been listening to people that it is better to be silent when the other person is really angry. Yes, I guess it is right to end the fight or to calm down the other person; one should keep silent so that it is not prolonged. It is true…

Be gentle — Be gentle I wrote on this concept earlier with the title, “Law of Attraction: A Very powerful Law of Universe that can Make Your Life a Living Paradise” which says, “The Law of Attraction is the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on.” This piece of…

A Typical Desi Mard (male) dilemma. — A Typical Desi Mard (male) dilemma. In Asia, especially in Pakistan and India, there is a deeply rooted tradition of arranged marriage. The tradition is that the family members of a boy go to see a girl in her home. The girl serves food and shows them her ‘mannerism’. Boy’s…

Psychology says we try to avoid certain situations that give us the feelings of anxiety and depression. People do certain tricks to avoid… — Psychology says we try to avoid certain situations that give us the feelings of anxiety and depression. People do certain tricks to avoid such situations. It is called Defense Mechanisms. These are, “…psychological strategies brought into play by the unconscious mind to manipulate, deny, or distort reality in order to…

Once I was talking to my dearest, nearest friend and my phone-pal (yes, I made this term for her) Nidacheema. She said something that… — Once I was talking to my nearest, dearest friend and my phone-pal (yes, I made this term for her) Nidacheema. She said something that moved me to write this story. First of all, let me explain the background story of her views. Being the part of a Desi Asian family…

I have been meaning to write on this for so long. This phrase has many levels. I mean what is the purpose of saying “time is a bitch” and… — I have been meaning to write on this for so long. This phrase has many levels. I mean what is the purpose of saying “timing is a bitch” and for whom? Well, I would only unveil some points or areas where I would like to explain that “timing is a…

I read a one line story once — I read a one line story once “He was hammering nails in his wall (thakk thakk thakk), the neighbor got so irritated that he divorced his wife”. Got it? May be Let me put this in other words. Sometimes in life you get so irritated with a petty thing that…

Dark is good, Dark is beautiful, Dark is love — Dark is good, Dark is beautiful, Dark is love… TOO I belong to a society where you hear certain utterances every now and then, “how beautiful and fair (white) she is!” and, “do something, your complexion is so dark, have some fairness cream, facial or treatment for it”, and, “that…

I read a story written by Mubashar Ali Zaidi a while ago. He is an Urdu writer and journalist, He writes stories based on 100 words which… — I read a story written by Mubashar Ali Zaidi a while ago. He is an Urdu writer and journalist, He writes stories based on 100 words which is called “100 lafzon ki kahani (a 100 words story)”. The story that I read was “Mukhtalif (different)”. …